"if you have made your mind up that you intend to enjoy the best life God has for you, you must realize that it begins with you. you must believe what God's word says about you more than you believe what others say or what your feelings or own mind says.
maybe you had negative messages fed to you since you were a child. it could have been parents who had troubles themselves and took their frustrations out on you. it could have been a teacher who delighted in belittling you in front of the rest of the class. perhaps your parents excessively compared you to another sibling, giving you the impression that you were flawed. you may have experienced one or more broken relationships and became convinced it was your fault, but whatever the reason for your self doubt and negative attitude toward yourself, it has to change if you truly desire to enjoy God's best in your life.
resist and refuse to let doubt convince you that good things wont happen to you and your family, aggressively expect good things! ask God to give you divine supernatural favor and then expect to see it in your life daily"
- Joyce Meyer